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Stay on top of your wedding RSVPs

Wedding guests can easily RSVP on your wedding website using their smartphone or computer. For guests who don't have either, you can do it for them.

How it works

  1. 01
    Set up your events
    Select which wedding events you want each guest to see and RSVP to.
  2. 02
    Invite your guests
    Invite your wedding guests via paper or digital invites to RSVP online.
  3. 03
    Your guests RSVP
    Your guests visit your wedding website and RSVP to all of your events.
  4. 04
    Chill!
    Let the RSVPs roll in without lifting a finger!
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Collect & track wedding RSVPs

As RSVPs start rolling in, you can effortlessly track them in your Say I do dashboard. Rest assured, all your wedding details - guest counts, answered questions, and contact information - will be accurate and perfectly organized for each event!

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Guests RSVP from your wedding guest list

Control who can RSVP by uploading your guest list. This means that there will be no surprises on the big day. You can manually enter your guests or import a spreadsheet.

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Have an open guest list

Absolutely everyone is welcome! Want to make it easy for anyone to RSVP to your wedding? Simply set your guest list to 'Open' and let the celebration begin!

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Control plus ones

You control which wedding guests get a plus one, sparing you from any uncomfortable conversations.

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Private wedding events

Do you have wedding guests that you want to invite to your ceremony but not your dinner? No problem, our private events are perfect for you. Guests will only be able to see and RSVP to the events that you invite them to.

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Custom RSVP questions

Ask guests the important questions during RSVP: which meal they would like, their wedding song choice and whether they have any dietary requirements.

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Private RSVP questions

Need answers from specific wedding guests? Asking guests invited to private events is the perfect solution!

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Multilingual RSVP

Our multilingual RSVP feature ensures that every guest, no matter where they're from, can fully understand and enjoy all your wedding events.

Currently available languages:
  • 🇬🇧 English
  • 🇪🇸 Spanish
  • 🇫🇷 French
  • 🇵🇹 Portuguese
  • 🇩🇪 German
  • 🇮🇹 Italian
  • 🇸🇪 Swedish
  • 🇵🇱 Polish
  • 🇸🇮 Slovene
  • 🇨🇳 Chinese
  • 🇳🇱 Dutch

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Friendly RSVP reminders

There will always be a few guests who are a little lax on submitting their RSVP. At the touch of a button, you can send them a gentle RSVP reminder.

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A beautiful wedding website with all the details

Online RSVP and wedding websites go hand in hand. Give your guests all the information they need on your very own custom website.

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Modern love calls for digital wedding invitations

Send online wedding invitations, save the dates, RSVP reminders and 'Thank You' cards with a simple click of a button.

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Real couples, real online RSVP reviews

Join over 248,643 couples worldwide using Say I do for their wedding RSVP

Avatar of Jeanette BoikhutsoJeanette Boikhutso South Africa
What an excellent App, so simple to use, it managed my guests RSVP so well, I love it.
Avatar of April BrownApril Brown Australia
We absolutely LOVE this site for all our planning and website hosting for our wedding! It's really nice aesthetically and there's lots of handy features to keep track of things. The RSVP page is really easy to use for guests too. The only improvement I've been asking for is a "drag to reorder" feature in the seating plan tab. That would make the site even better!
Avatar of Ashleigh Jayne LamondAshleigh Jayne Lamond Australia
So easy to use! Gave us all the data we needed in one location without having to worry about return envelopes and stamps. Say I Do was the PERFECT rsvp site for us.
Avatar of Georgia HeronGeorgia Heron United Kingdom
Used the free service and was able to create a website that had everything I needed from a photo wall to digital rsvps to updating part way to add the menu, the I ensured the RSVP section asked people to pop in an email address so I could then take these to email updates I found it really simple and easy to use, I was sticking to a budget otherwise I may have upgraded but it suited my needs fully
Avatar of Cushla FraserCushla Fraser Australia
Best app!! Made our wedding planning a breeze with saving time and money!!!! The RSVP function was the saving grace for time and ease!! Best decision ever using this app! Highly recommend!
Avatar of Lamphane PathammachakLamphane Pathammachak United Kingdom
I wouldn’t have made it without Say I do… it is so easy to use, our wedding website is amazing, the price is very affordable. The wedding website we created is A-MAZING I’m obsessed with everything. We have a QR code for our invitations for people to rsvp the table plan is easy to use… anyway the best purchase I’ve done for our wedding. So if you’re hesitating, don’t you won’t regret it!!!!!!
Avatar of Yvonne ChungYvonne Chung Ireland
Really great application and family and friends loved it. I think it has a very well personalised touch due to more info and pictures you can upload. Also having it free up to 80 guests is perfect for small weddings like mines. Highly recommended, saves time and money. Great for guests to view anytime and no hassle trying to find a lost invite few months later. Great for bride and groom to view who has RSVP and who is attending ceremony/reception. You do have to pay if you have more guest but still much cheaper than your stationary and post.
Sammy Thailand
My bridesmaids are SOO jealous that I found Say I Do and they didn't when they were planning their wedding. It's been amazingly helpful for guests to RSVP, and for me to keep up with them, sending them updates on things they need to know. I even got in touch with their support team, knowing I'd screwed something up outside of their app, and they even helped me solve that... saving me about $300 in that alone. That's not counting the savings I have made on all the different stationery suite things I haven't had to get printed. I highly recommend using them, they are so helpful!
Seán Spain
We used this website to track our guest numbers and so we had a place for people to RSVP if they didn't use social media or WhatsApp. It was so easy to use and really made us not have to think about other things. Would definitely recommend to other couples.
Kate Surplice United Kingdom
I used the free version of this wedding website and it was great! I could personalise our own website with a theme and photos and add as much or as little information that we required. It was really easy to set up and navigate and all our guests were able to RSVP online with no problem. Lots of people complimented our wedding website and it made it so much easier to give/ update information for guests rather than sending out paper with our invitations. Would definitely recommend to all couples!
Ellen Australia
Say I do is so easy to use! We could quickly send all the info needed to all our guests, and they could rsvp through the website rather than messaging us - way easier to keep track of! And some beautiful templates. A friend recommended it and we recommend say I do to anyone getting married!
Dominika Brozek Canada
Amazing wedding website ! We absolutely loved personalizing our page. It was so easy to set up and all our guests found it to be easy to use. You can add photos, entire schedule, love story, absolutely anything. RSVP is so easy to use, your guests just have to advise if they are attending or not attending. You can also customize allergies, personalized questions like for example we had what song would you like to hear on the dance floor. It’s a fun way to get the guests involved in the planning , and they were sooo happy to hear their song playing during the wedding reception ! I would definitely recommend this wedding website !
June New Zealand
Very easy to use. Very functional, looks great. Great way to send invites and have guests rsvp.
Lee United Kingdom
Awesome! Has helped us so much with our wedding planning. Very easy to design your own custom website and has features above and beyond competitors. The RSVP / meal selection choices feature was incredibly useful for us and took a lot of stress out of planning. The announcement feature, which we used 2 weeks before the big day, was so useful! Highly recommend Say I Do!
Rebecca Moreton United Kingdom
Having a sayi.do website really helped smooth the RSVP process. It was easier for guests to log onto the website to RSVP rather than send a response in the post. I was able to add questions to the RSVP for guests attending the ceremony to pick their menu options. The support is quick and so helpful Carley H recently saved my life with sorting out a URL issue which meant I didn’t have to reprint all my invites.
rosie United Kingdom
It was very easy to set up and personalise. My guests were very impressed with it and found it easy to navigate and to RSVP.
Sanchita United Kingdom
This is a complete package, super easy to make and maintain. While wedding websites are a common place in the European and American parts of the world, I used this to create a a website for an Indian wedding. As grand and large Indian weddings are, it is very important to ensure that your guests and the wedding party are fully aware of the number of guests and their arrivals times (especially in the case of destination wedding) and timings and other details of all the rituals, function and the ceremonies. I am currently using this to collect RSVP and arrival info, send invites, share ceremony details with our guests. Grateful!
Nicole Henderson Australia
This is an excellent option for organising a wedding. I loved how I could keep my guests regularly informed. We had to reschedule our wedding twice due to COVID and this site made it so easy to do that. We were also able to make changes to the timeline once we refined the schedule which I found so handy - had we sent out paper invitations that is much harder to do. There are a few minor challenges with the user interface which we were able to navigate around. The new guest list looks great but I had to revert to the old one in order to update RSVP responses as this was the only way to add people to events so they were visible on the schedule. I highly recommend using Say.ido as it’s the perfect event planner/manager!
Marty Australia
It was such a godsend stumbling across ‘say I do’. Like most I was super nervous, anxious, unsure of everything going into the wedding planning but their tools pointed me in the right direction all over the place, their customer support was AMAZING and I’m in love with the website I created on there for my guests to use and RSVP. I didn’t have some of my guest details so I was just able to send a form to a couple of group chats and have it all done. All in all, I highly recommend and you won’t regret using this site.
Jane Australia
I’m so glad I found them. I was able to create a really nice website for my wedding, and send out a QR code to my guests. They also submitted their responses easily and it made things so much easier. I also added some extra questions that I needed to know to the rsvp so it collected all that too. I had a hiccup early on but Carley from customer service was prompt, friendly, and straight to the point, so had me back on track in about 4 minutes which is the fastest and best support I’ve ever had. I’m writing this review because I want everyone’s planning to be as streamlined as mine!
Lou Canada
Great weddding Planner app! Able to use it to centralize all different aspects of wedding planning. Especially loved the RSVP for guests and also the seat planning/arrangement tool. Would def recommend it!
Melissa Australia
I made the decision to add digital RSVPs and it was the best decision. The process was simple and easy to use. The company who made our invites were able to add the QR code and I liked being able to adjust the questions asked to our guests based on what we needed. It was exciting getting an email each time someone responded! I didn’t really use any of the other functionality but can see it would have been handy if I’d started using it from the start of the planning process not just at the end. The website design process was really easy and there’s lots of great options. We were able to match our invite colours to those chosen for the website.
Amanda A United Kingdom
Great website from start to finish. RSVP function was fabulous and the ability to plan seating and meals etc also brilliant. Recommend for any couple getting wed
Albina Bezdetko Australia
Made the process so much easier! We used the website as RSVP and invitations! The design process was super simple! Reminders for various vendors was great also.
Vicky Gresham-Varney United Kingdom
Easy to book, finding the space was a little confusing as there were a few different car parks in the same place and the app didn't say that the car park was an NCP causing a bit more confusion. No issues other than that and very reasonably priced
Dominika Brozek Canada
Amazing wedding website ! We absolutely loved personalizing our page. It was so easy to set up and all our guests found it to be easy to use. You can add photos, entire schedule, love story, absolutely anything. RSVP is so easy to use, your guests just have to advise if they are attending or not attending. You can also customize allergies, personalized questions like for example we had what song would you like to hear on the dance floor. It’s a fun way to get the guests involved in the planning , and they were sooo happy to hear their song playing during the wedding reception ! I would definitely recommend this wedding website !
Ayodeji Ogunyemi United Kingdom
This website made my planning really easy, from the RSVP to the checklists, it helped me know how to stay on track and also what to look out for as at when due.
Laura Bell United Kingdom
What a simple website to use! I loved being able to use the uploader for our guest lists and build events to invite them too (day/evening). Our guests have commented on how much they love the personalisation and how easy it was to RSVP.
Jen United Kingdom
Such a good website. It's got everything that you need to plan a wedding. We used it for our RSVP and invites too. Make it easy to see who has still to reply etc. We upgraded to be able to include Dietary requirements and some more guests, but for the price of sending actual paper invitations, it's well worth it. Only thing is, changing guest "party's" for example from couple to family, there is probably an easier way but I couldn't find without deleting and re entering details. Other than that minor deti. Fab website

Frequently asked questions

Do you have online RSVP available?

Our free smart RSVP and wedding website is included with every Say I do account.

Will my guests need to create an account to RSVP?

No they will not. Your wedding guests simply need to visit your wedding website, click the RSVP button, and follow the steps to submit their RSVP online—quick and easy!

Can a guest RSVP for all the people in their party?

Yes, an individual wedding guest is able to RSVP for their whole party.

Can wedding guests change their RSVP response later?

Yes, they can! If your online RSVP feature is enabled, guests can easily update their responses by resubmitting their answers. If needed, you can turn off the RSVP feature to prevent further updates.

How will I know if a guest has RSVP’d online?

We will send you an email notification every time a wedding guest RSVPs online.

Is it possible to ask guests for meal preferences when they RSVP?

Certainly! With our custom RSVP question feature, you can effortlessly gather meal preferences and other important details from your guests.

Can I set a deadline for RSVPs?

You sure can! You can add it to your wedding website and/or include it on your digital wedding invitation. You can even send an RSVP reminder to your wedding guests.

Can guests send notes or requests with their RSVP?

Yes, absolutely! Simply set up a custom RSVP question to ask for their song requests, special messages for the couple, or anything else you'd like to know. There are plenty more Questions to Ask Your Wedding Guests on Your Wedding Website RSVP.

How can I ask for guests' dietary requirements?

This is automatically added to your RSVP form in our Standard package upgrade.

How can I confirm that every invited guest has responded?

Your Say I do dashboard is your source of truth for all your wedding planning. It includes a breakdown of your events, who is attending, who is not and who is yet to RSVP.

Packages & pricing

Basic
Free
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  • Up to 85 Guests
  • Custom Wedding Website
  • Guest List & RSVP Manager
  • Digital Save The Dates
  • Checklist
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Standard
$ USD
One-time cost
  • Everything in Basic, plus...
  • Up to 150 Guests
  • Dietary Requirements Collection
  • Guest Address Collection
  • Password Protected Website
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Premium
$ USD
One-time cost
  • Everything in Standard, plus:
  • Unlimited Guests
  • Seating Planner
  • Digital Invitations, Thank You notes and RSVP Reminders More info
  • Unlimited RSVP Questions What's this?
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