10 Ways To Make Your Wedding Unique
By Caitlin Hoare
Are you ready to add a touch of sparkle to your special day? Let's dive into 10 unique wedding ideas that will make your celebration truly unforgettable!
Your wedding day will be one of the most special days of your life, so why not make it a memorable experience for everyone involved and add a touch of sparkle to the proceedings? We all know the most unforgettable weddings tend to be ones that are truly personal and a little bit different, so we've curated a few unique wedding ideas that might float your boat. They may not be for everyone because it is important to stay true to yourselves and not lose sight of your wedding vision and wedding theme, but you'll be surprised at how easily transforming a few little details can impact the day as a whole! Okay, here goes...
1. Organise guest transport but with a difference
Wedding transport is not often seen as one of the most fun parts of the wedding planning process, but why not make it memorable for everyone involved?! There are loads of unique options out there that will help you get your wedding guests from A to B with big smiles on their faces. Why let the festivities stop when travelling from the wedding ceremony to the reception? Here are a few unique transport options to consider for your big day:
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Hire a vintage school bus or tram
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Hire a party bus; yes, such things exist! Buses come kitted out with music, drinks, and entertainment
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If you're feeling particularly extravagant, how about hiring stretch limos for everyone?
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If there isn't far to travel and you're on a rural/festival-style site, why not arrange golf buggies or a tractor and trailer?
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If you're a large group, you could consider a shuttle bus for the majority and something special like a vintage car or limo for just the bridal party
2. Create a custom monogram
Another really cute wedding idea is to design a wedding monogram that incorporates your and your partner's initials and add it to your wedding website and stationery for that personal touch. You can get really creative and craft a beautiful brand for yourselves and have your monogram feature throughout the day - on signage, place cards, and even the wedding menu. If you've always dreamt of having personalised wedding stationery, a wax seal stamp, or even a signet ring to mark the special occasion, this is your chance!
3. Involve your pet(s)
Yep, we've seen it all over social media, and it's undeniably cute, so why not involve your pooch in your day? They could be your ring bearer, be there with you at the altar, or simply be at the reception, stealing the limelight in your photos! Dress them up in a tux or a floral wreath, or decorate their lead; the opportunities are endless. But if you're going to have your pet physically there, you need to make sure your wedding venue is pet-friendly and arrange for someone to take them home after a couple of hours. A long day and large crowds are tiring for anyone, especially your four-legged friend.
Should it not be realistic to have them there on the day, there are plenty of other adorable ways to include them: have your pet made into a cake topper, feature them on your wedding stationery or napkins, or even have a miniature depiction of them embroidered into your veil.
4. Choose a unique wedding venue
If you're looking for something REALLY unique for your big day, why not go big and choose a wedding venue that's going to make a statement? Some simple searching online will bring you some really unusual and quirky spaces that will leave a lasting impression on your guests. Of course, this depends on your location, chosen wedding date, and how far you're willing to travel, but with a little bit of thinking outside the box, you're sure to find something that's going to get your hearts racing! Outdoor weddings are also really special and add another dimension to the day. Anything from your favourite museum, art gallery, wildlife park, zoo, treehouse, or castle, you'll be surprised at what venues are available to hire for special events.
5. Have one of your friends officiate
A really special way to personalise your ceremony is to ask a friend or family member to officiate your wedding. However, it may not be as simple as you'd hoped, so if you want to go down this road, give yourself plenty of time to do your research. You need to make sure it's allowed in your location and find out if a licence is required; you also need to allow time for that to arrive and give time for your loved one to think about whether they are up for it and what they are going to say. It's sensible to have a plan b just in case asking your chosen person doesn't work out, and you're left without a celebrant the day before you're due to get married!
When it comes to these celebrant-led celebrations, because there aren't any legally binding vows (you'll need to tick that box beforehand), really anything goes! Play a game, sing songs, read poetry, and exchange deeply personal vows that actually mean something to you and your future together.
6. Make it a weekend
Gone are the days of weekend weddings being just for destination weddings. Loads of wedding venues are now hiring their spaces out for exclusive use over the weekend, so why not have a multi-day celebration? Not only are wedding weekends more intimate, but you also have more time to spend with your loved ones. It can also be a little getaway for everyone, so the whole wedding party will be more relaxed as they are spending more time away from home revelling in the celebration! Plus, you can make it as immersive and full of fun activities as you want.
7. Have a wedding piñata
Make it yourself or get a professional one made for you, but whatever you do, bringing a piñata into the mix is a guaranteed way to have a good time during the wedding reception. There are all sorts of fun wedding shapes of piñatas you can choose, whether it's a star, ring, heart, or a wedding cake. Fill it with small favours: sweet treats, small (plastic) bottles of liquor, toys for the kids, lottery tickets, or even fun fancy dress accessories. Oh, and don't forget about sorting a blindfold and a stick to smack it with! Can you just imagine the wedding photos?!
8. Hold a ring ceremony
This tradition originated in Ireland, and it's the passing around of the wedding bands to all of the guests ahead of the ceremony. Guests warm the rings up with good wishes, a prayer, or positive intentions for the couple's future before passing them on to the next person. It's a beautiful and unique way to get everyone involved and feel included in the wedding.
Top tip! Have the rings in a box to pass around to minimise the risk of them being dropped and rolling away minutes before the ceremony!
9. Set up a tasting bar
Why not switch up the cocktail hour and choose your and your partner's favourite tipple and arrange a tasting bar so everyone can get involved? Whether it's beer, cider, gin, or wine, have a bar set up with a range of options available to your guests. You could always go that extra mile and have them on tap for ease and/or served out of a unique customised horse box, vintage cart, or something similar to get your guests talking and coming back for more!
10. Customise your wine
If you're a big wine fan or just can't get enough of customisation, you could create personalised labels for the wine you're serving on the tables at your wedding. It will be a conversation starter for sure, and don't forget to add your monogram to the label, too! If you fancy wowing your guests even more, then you could even make the wine that you're serving up - yes, really! There are companies and vineyards out there that will help you with the process, from fermentation to filling and corking the bottles. Plus, the bottles make a lovely keepsake, too!