Our Love Story
Maddie and Josh’s story began in the most unexpected of times—during the height of the Covid-19 pandemic. Maddie was living her dream, travelling across Australia, when she received the call no one wanted: her mum, Debbie, wanted her home. Sixteen hours on a bus and a 24-hour flight later, she landed at Heathrow, unaware that fate had just set her on a path to meet the love of her life. Back in the UK and mid-lockdown, Maddie’s phone rang. To her surprise, she was being called back to work at Wagamama—a job she thought she’d left behind. As luck would have it, her manager had never processed her resignation. Meanwhile, Josh was navigating the highs and lows of university life—experiencing a different kind of snakebite. With three part-time jobs behind him and no income in sight, he quickly applied for work. He landed a temporary role at Morrisons, just a stone’s throw from Wagamama, and signed up for food delivery apps to keep busy in the evenings with his friend Marcus. Over the following weeks, Josh became a regular at Wagamama, drawn in by the deliveries—or perhaps something more. It was there, next to the bins (yes, really), that he first laid eyes on Maddie. For both, it was love at first sight. Maddie, ever the bold one, struck up the first conversation, complimenting his mask-wearing diligence. Clearly, she had a soft spot for a man in uniform. That very night, Josh went home and told his mum, “I think I met my wife today.” Little did he know—he truly had.
Schedule
Thursday 3rd June 2027
18:30 - 21:30
Wedding Eve Drinks
2 High St, Reigate RH2 9AY, UK
Friday 4th June 2027
17:00
Evening Begins
Gildings Barn
Partridge Ln, Newdigate, Dorking RH5 5BN, UK
17:30
The Real Party Starts
19:30
Evening Food Served
Paella - veg and meat options available.
23:00
Carriages Home
Saturday 5th June 2027
10:30
Caffeine Catchup
The Meadows
Park Ln, Reigate RH2 8JX, UK
Our Honeymoon Fund
Should you wish to honour us with a gift, we won't stop you! Every penny will go towards spicy margaritas on a white sandy beach.
Name: Madeleine Farrer (Martin post 4th June 2027) or Josh Martin Sort Code: 04-00-03 Account Number 5601 3144
Share your photos with us
We would love for you to capture photos of the day. Whilst we ask that you do not take photos during the ceremony or speeches, please take as many as you want outside of that time.
Accommodation Finder
Please see boutique hotels nearby. Due to the number of guests, we will not have a base hotel for the wedding as all wedding activity will be held at Gilding's barns. Should you wish further afield, please use the finder below for your convenience.

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Frequently Asked Questions
We've pulled together a handy Q&A to help you get the info you need in no time—so you can focus on the fun stuff!
Are children invited?
We kindly request that only children on invites attend the wedding. We will not be able to accommodate any changes.
Will there be a bar?
We will provide refreshments all day, including Soft drinks, Pimms, Prosecco, Wines and Beer. Our manned bar for cocktails and spirits will open from 5pm (included). Note, we won't be able to cater to all tastes, but hope to have a choice for everyone. We will have a separate link and contribution box for the bar if you wish to support us with the cost. We do not expect, but hope you appreciate the cost of putting this on.
Is there parking at the venue?
Yes, there is on-site parking. The carpark will close at 23:30 and will not reopen until the morning. Cars can be left overnight, but must be collected between 9am and 12 midday, the following day.
I have a question that has not been answered. Who should I contact?
Please message Maddie or Josh directly who will be able to help answer.