Our Love Story
Jay and James met at Second Story Bar—one of those ordinary nights that quietly turns into something extraordinary. Jay was immediately struck by James’ kindness, the kind that felt genuine and rare. James, on the other hand, couldn’t help but fall for Jay’s outgoing, extroverted spirit—the way Jay lit up every room and made everyone feel at ease. What started as a simple meeting soon became something much deeper. Days turned into weeks, weeks into months, and before they knew it, months had turned into years—each one filled with laughter, growth, and love. Then, two years ago, in the warmth of their kitchen, James asked Jay a question that would change everything. And Jay said yes.
Schedule
Saturday 3rd October 2026
4:30pm - 5:00pm
Wedding Ceremony
Wedding Party only Close family and friends only
Attire: Black - Classic and Timeless
Juliana’s
3001 W Peterson Ave, Chicago, IL 60659, USA
5:30pm - 7:00pm
Cocktail Hour
Please join us for cocktails and appetizers as we celebrate love, laughter, and the beginning of a beautiful journey together. Enjoy a curated selection of drinks and light bites while mingling and making memories.
Attire: Colorful Formal Attire Encouraged
Juliana’s
3001 W Peterson Ave, Chicago, IL 60659, USA
7:00pm - 9:00pm
Wedding Reception
After the cocktail hour, enjoy a dinner reception as we celebrate love, connection, and the beginning of forever, surrounded by good food, laughter, and the people who mean the most to us.
9:00pm - 11:59pm
After-Dinner Dancing Reception
Continue the evening with dancing and more libations.
Sunday 4th October 2026
12:00am - 2:00am
After-Party
When the reception winds down, the celebration doesn’t stop. Stay and party for late-night drinks, dancing, and more good vibes.
Attire: Relaxed — Get comfortable and ready to keep the party going!
Juliana’s
3001 W Peterson Ave, Chicago, IL 60659, USA
Accommodation Information
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Wedding Party
Meet our lovely family and friends who will be by the side of both grooms on the big day.
Tiffany
Tiffany isn’t just Jay’s little sister—she’s been his constant, his safe place, and his partner through every adventure, big or small. From escape rooms to far-off travels and everything in between, she has stood beside him through laughter, challenges, and countless unforgettable moments. More than family, she’s Jay’s best friend, his confidante, and one of the people he loves most. Meet his Maid of Honor.
Dianne
When Dianne moved from Alabama, Jay quickly found a friend who would become so much more. From day one, they shared laughs, adventures, and supported each other through every challenge. Over time, their friendship grew into something deeper than just friends—it became family. She’s been there for him through everything, always loyal, always caring, always by his side. She proudly said yes to be one of his bridesmaids. Their friendship is and will be ALWAYS AND FOREVER
Crystal
When Jay first moved right before freshman high school, everything felt new and unfamiliar—until he met Crystal. From the very beginning, Crystal had a way of making a place feel like home. Most people drift apart after high school. Crystal crossed paths with Tiffany years later “and just like that” Jay and Crystal are back together. They’ve shared unforgettable moments filled with laughter, loyalty, and love. Crystal has been Jay’s protector, his bodyguard and above all, his best friend. Crystal will stand proudly by his side—not just as one of his bridesmaids or protector or best friend but his unofficial bodyguard.
Kym
From the very first moment, Jay felt like he’d known Kym forever. There was a warmth and connection that went beyond words, and in no time, she became someone he truly cherishes—one of his bridesmaids. James and Kym’s friendship grew quickly, built on a shared love of pets, kindred minds, and free spirits. Their connection was natural and effortless, and it’s clear from the start that their bond is one full of warmth, laughter, and mutual admiration.
Alyssa
Jay’s friendship with Alyssa began in a beautifully unexpected way—she became the big sister he never had. Through mischief, differences, and all of life’s changes, their bond has only grown deeper. No matter the distance between them, the love and loyalty they share has never faded. She said yes to standing beside him as one of his bridesmaids.
Amber
Amber and Jay’s friendship began quietly, through simple conversations with friends that slowly grew into something meaningful. Those moments turned into long talks over drinks, shared risks, spontaneous trips, and memories that deepened their bond. Amber has shown Jay that she will always stand by his side not just in life but also his bridesmaid. James and Amber’s connection was instant—like a snap of a finger. From the very beginning, it was clear that their bond is natural, strong, and full of joy.
Peter
Peter is James’ nephew and godson, and he’s had the privilege of watching him grow from a young boy into the man he is today. Over the years, their relationship has become more than family—it’s become a true friendship. They share many interests, including a mutual love for fragrances, but even more than that, they share deep respect and love for one another. James doesn’t see Peter as just a nephew; he sees him as the son he never had. Having Peter stand by his side today as his best man means everything to him.
Ryan
Ryan has known Jay and James both together and separately, with friendships that started casually at the bar and grew into something much more. With Jay, it turned into hanging out, making memories, going to concerts, being a super-hero to Ryan’s dog when he was missing for weeks and even having Jay as a room-mate temporary before he needed to leave for New York. With James, it grew into dinners out, musicals, and plenty of shared adventures. That’s why it felt perfect to ask Ryan to officiate this special day—and just as fitting that James chose him to stand beside him as one of his groomsmen.
Steven
Steven has known Jay since high school, alongside Crystal, and their friendship has stood the test of time. The love Steven shows for Crystal and their daughter is constant, genuine, and deeply inspiring to everyone who knows him. It’s a reflection of the kind of man he is and the values he holds close. That love and loyalty are exactly why James chose Steven to stand beside him as one of his groomsmen.
Casey
Casey is James’ other nephew, and their bond is built on shared passions and genuine admiration. From cheering on the Packers to enjoying a good beer together, they’ve always connected easily. Casey is an incredible father to his daughter, and the love he shows his wife is the kind of partnership James hopes to have with Jay. Free-spirited, fun-loving, and always up for a good time, Casey’s energy mirrors James’s own. That’s exactly why James chose him to stand by his side as one of his groomsmen.
Marcus
Marcus was chosen to be one of James’s groomsmen not just because he’s a killer cook and a certified grill master—though let’s be honest, that alone almost secured the role. But beyond the perfectly grilled meals, Marcus knows both Jay and James, not only as individuals but as a couple, and loves them for exactly who they are. His dedication, passion, and big love for life are qualities they deeply admire and strive to reflect in their own relationship. Having Marcus stand beside James on their wedding day is a true honor… and yes, we’re all still hoping he fires up the grill later.
Jose
Jose has been a constant and meaningful presence in both Jay and James’ lives, not just as a friend, but as someone who truly shows up. He has an incredible way of making the people he loves feel seen and supported, no matter the circumstances—even if it means stepping off a plane and arriving just in the nick of time. That kind of devotion speaks to the depth of his heart, the strength of his friendships, and the love he gives so selflessly. It’s that unwavering loyalty and care that made James choose Jose to stand beside him as one of his groomsmen.
Frequently Asked Questions
We've pulled together a handy Q&A to help you get the info you need in no time—so you can focus on the fun stuff!
Are children invited to the wedding?
We’re excited to celebrate our special day with all of our loved ones! To ensure everyone can relax and enjoy the festivities, we kindly request that our wedding be an adults-only affair. We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to share this joyous occasion with you!
When do we need to RSVP by?
Please submit your RSVP before 15th of August.
Are the wedding ceremony and the reception at the same venue?
Yes, both the ceremony and reception will be held at the same venue.
Share your photos with us
We want to capture every laugh, dance move, silly face, and magical moment from our wedding—and we’d love your help! Snap photos throughout the day, catch the unexpected moments, and even share a few favorites in the days after. No moment is too big or too small—every picture will help us remember our day from all angles. Click the tab below and add your photos, videos and messages. Also, look for the QR code at your table! Scan it to share your photos and messages, and help us capture every magical moment of our wedding day.